A few reasons we only go out on very special occasions ...
- Financial - We can easily spend on one meal what we would spend on 2 weeks worth of groceries.
- Quality of food - When we cook at home we can control every ingredient of our meal and prepare it exactly how we like it.
- QUALITY time with family - When we are at a restaurant we are surrounded by noise and interruptions. The kids don't tell us as much about their day in a public setting with all the other activities around us competing for their attention.
- Teaching opportunities - Children can learn some incredible life skills in the home kitchen. Communication, math, reading, self sufficiency, team work ... the list goes on and on!
But most of us know all of that already ... the real question is HOW can we do it every night?? Over the years we have added a few fun activities to our dinner time routine that have really made it more enjoyable and exciting for us to stay in and eat at home. Here are our tips and tricks on reducing/eliminating restaurant visits:
Sports and activities night

Interactive theme nights
We have two theme nights every week. The first is a kids choice (big kids aka farmer J, get to pick too.) We take turns choosing a theme for that day on Saturday before we hit the grocery store. We then come up with a fun menu for that night. Some examples are under the sea mermaid night (my daughter picks this one often, so this is usually our sea food night), race car drive-up diner night (burgers/fries), and Tarzan jungle night (finger food without utensils). We find a Pandora station that fits the theme and play it while we prep the food and dinner table.
We have one Italian night a week. This is a fixed night every week (example every Wednesday). We do this so the kids know exactly what to expect every Wednesday and they look forward to this day every week. On those nights the kids help make pizza, homemade pasta, lasagna, meatballs ... anything interactive. The Pandora station for this night is "Italian Traditional Radio".
Fridays are family movie fun nights. We make appetizers, snacks, and a big bowl of air popped popcorn for dinner. We lay out a picnic blanket and have dinner in front of a movie.
UN-Takeout night
There are lots of foods that are easy to pick up on the way home from work. They are surprisingly just as easy to make at home. Here is an example of Chinese UN-Takeout night Veggie lo mein with homemade noodles (recipe here) and Egg drop soup (recipe here.)

There are lots of foods that are easy to pick up on the way home from work. They are surprisingly just as easy to make at home. Here is an example of Chinese UN-Takeout night Veggie lo mein with homemade noodles (recipe here) and Egg drop soup (recipe here.)
Leftover buffet and surprise soup night

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Example week of meal themes at home |